“woman, let me go”
I went to visit a friend in Saskatchewan a few years ago because, well, she invited me. So being a good hostess she took a few days off work and drove me here and there, showing me the sights. Now there isn’t much to see in the prairies unless you look at what’s right in front of you. The fact that most of the land is flat is quite a sight to behold and the quietness will make you hold your breath. It was like an empty canvass and the farmers were the artists. Anyway……..
One day she told me about the valley. My thoughts were the same as yours, “where do you get a valley if you don’t have any hills?” However, there was a valley, of sorts. The land was cut away and there was a large lake nearby too. Beautiful area but lets get to the ghost.
We went into a souvenir/tourist shop. They had all the regular stuff such as, “Kiss me I’m from Saskatchewan” keychains, and “My Grandpa went to Saskatchewan and all I got was this T-shirt” and hoardes of dream catchers. We looked around for a while, I picked up a few things cause it was a good shop as far as souvenir shops go. The lady at the checkout struck me as sad and lost like. As she was ringing in the keychains I watched an older man sitting on the stool behind the counter. He was heavy set, had dark hair mostly gone grey, wore a sweater over his shirt and tie and his head hung to one side in sadness and resignation. I also noticed that he was attached to the check out lady, some force held him to her. He was tired and wanted to go but her force kept him with her. It was the oddest thing I’ve ever seen in the ghost world.
So, being too damn nosey, I had to ask, “Is this your shop?”
“Yes”
“Have you been here long?”
“Well, yes, since my husband died”
Bingo.
We chatted, and chatted, and chatted - let me spare you the long conversation.
Her husband was a professor and quite well known in the area, had done great things in his life, they were married for more years than I had existed and she was very surprised I didn’t know who he was.
Lady, do I look local to you?
Anyway, this is why he was miserable in his afterlife. She couldn’t let go of him, he was grounded, stuck to her because of her sense of loss and misery. I imagine if she could hear him he’d probably say, “woman, let me go.”






I’m suprised you can tell the living from the dead, when I see some people I start doing that zombie trumpet tune.
A while back on my blog I made a line of hot underwear, the men’s section was called ‘Dream catchers’
Comment by Old Knudsen — April 13, 2008 @ 7:04 pm
I wrote my comment and clicked the button and it said slow doon yer posting comments too fast, have you come up with a new way to take the piss?
Comment by Old Knudsen — April 13, 2008 @ 7:05 pm
You should have told her he was there. Maybe she could have found a way to let go.
Comment by lceel — April 13, 2008 @ 8:14 pm
Knud - don’t change, I wouldn’t recognize you. And so did you get lucky with those ‘dream catchers’?
Iceel - No sarcasm intended but I’m not the Ghost Whisperer. Besides, how do you tell a complete stranger that her dead husband is sitting on a stool behind her. She’d either faint or think I was the most cruel person she’d ever met
Comment by warriorwitch — April 14, 2008 @ 12:48 am
I suppose one day she’ll just let him go…..maybe…
G
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Comment by Myst — April 14, 2008 @ 2:09 pm
I was thinking the same as lceel… but your response is a great question. How DO you tell a stranger that she’s making her dead husband miserable? I’ll have to ponder that one, because it’s almost funny in a really evil sort of way.
Comment by Hyphen Mama — April 14, 2008 @ 6:49 pm
talk about a ball and chain *snort*
Comment by zoe — April 14, 2008 @ 7:46 pm
Myst - She was a frail minded woman, needed-a-man type of woman. I don’t think she’ll get over him, I think he’ll be stuck to her until she’s dead and they both go into the light together. I would think that was romantic and all that except for the look on his face and the fact that he was worn down and tired and wanted to go.
Hyphen Mama - you give us ideas, or at least you do me. baha too funny
Comment by warriorwitch — April 14, 2008 @ 8:58 pm
I blame Disney for weemen needing men. Do those who miss loved ones usually anchor them or can they come and go?
Comment by Old Knudsen — April 15, 2008 @ 5:12 am
Ok… We also have to think there might be other things other then that he is attatched to her out of her needing him. Perhaps he needs her and this is why he has attatched himself to her. As well as perhaps this is his way of watching over her and keeping her safe now that he is not with her in flaesh but still to try help her in spirit. I believe this shows a good example of two souls meant to be together forever.
Also he may have been exhausted from helping her moarn over his own death!!!
Comment by RyanMoroz — May 3, 2008 @ 8:14 pm
This guy wanted to go, he did not want to be there. His wife’s inability to let go of him kept him anchored here on earth. She should have given up the ghost after his funeral and gotten on with life. He didn’t want to be there.
Comment by warriorwitch — May 3, 2008 @ 11:15 pm